Maudlin Minger

May 30, 2011 at 10:10 pm (Uncategorized)


UGH I DETEST MAWKISH FLIRTS and disgusting boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. Do you have any self-respect, you sickening lizard, when you ask a girl for their number and make excuses to talk to her? You have no class, freak! And I find you creepy! If you want to be attractive, be so by possessing a beautiful, respectful, intellectual and humble character!

What about those people who stalk people of the opposite gender? You find them escorting you to class without even having been introduced to you/spoken to you. They wait for you to get out of class so that they can stalk you further till the end of the day. AND THEY KNOW YOU KNOW. It’s like a silent cat-and-mouse game that induces paroxysmal nightmares. You can’t even tell the sonofagun to lay off because they may be like

Are you stupid? Don’t be up yourself. I’m not stalking you.

They are of the same society as you, and can even be in your class/college, etc. You know from their pervert-predator like gaze that they have no respect for you.

I sincerely believe that a girl’s boyfriend has no respect for her. There is no love in a bf/gf relationship or in courting! And that is an axiom. You think that guy who you talk to day and night gives a darn about you? He is treating you as an object that he’s going to show off to his chauvinistic mates the next day.

Love and mercy only exists amongst husband and wife. This is a sacred relationship- the only one where you sign the fact that you’re friends. Look at what Allaah has Said about marriage:

“And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose and comfort in them, and He has put between you affection and mercyVerily, in that are indeed Signs for a people who reflect.” (Quran 39:21)

Glory be to God- How Great He is!- I will never involve myself with a snivelling, ratty old man outside marriage, insha Allaah. It lacks class, lacks decency and is something to be sneered at. No matter how good-looking a man is, and how devout he looks, my respect for him is zilch if I ever find out that he’s involved with someone outside marriage.

May Allaah Keep us as pure as sweet Maryam:

19:16 Relate in the Book (the story of) Mary, when she withdrew from her family to a place in the East.
19:17 She placed a screen (to screen herself) from them; then We sent her our angel, and he appeared before her as a man in all respects.
19:18 She said: “I seek refuge from thee to (Allah) Most Gracious: (come not near) if thou dost fear Allah.”
19:19 He said: “Nay, I am only a messenger from thy Lord, (to announce) to thee the gift of a holy son.

And as beautiful as Yusuf (a.s.):

12:23 But she in whose house he was, sought to seduce him from his (true) self: she fastened the doors, and said: “Now come, thou (dear one)!” He said: “Allah forbid! truly (thy husband) is my lord! he made my sojourn agreeable! truly to no good come those who do wrong!”
12:24 And (with passion) did she desire him, and he would have desired her, but that he saw the evidence of his Lord: thus (did We order) that We might turn away from him (all) evil and shameful deeds: for he was one of Our servants, sincere and purified.
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1 Comment

  1. Mendaxxx said,

    The verses about Maryam were from the Quran, from Surah Maryam.

    The verses about Yusuf (a.s.) were from the Quran, too, from Surah Yusuf.

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